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Here we have a slide show of the weekend of Sanford's Celebration Of Life. The first part is Saturday at the Celebration and afterwards at home.
Sunday is at the Hard Rock Cafe with the visiting family members where we had dinner and they checked out the casino...
And the last part is Monday, when we had a lunch celebration of what would have been Sanford's 84th birthday.
The first picture in the slide show is of me and my only sibling, Fred.
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Monday, December 8, 2008
Sanford - Daddy - PopPop - San
As some of you already know, Sanford, my dearly beloved husband of 60 happy years was called home by our Dear Lord.
Losing him is very difficult for me and for our family but we take comfort in knowing that he no longer has to deal with earthly troubles and pains, that he is in a better place, that in spirit, he is still with us and that we will be with him again.
I told our girls that if Sanford had a headstone, it would certainly include the phrase that almost everyone has said to us: "He was a very nice man."The second day that he was in hospice, one of his nurses told us: "He is such a nice man.. if all patients were as nice as he is...everyone would want to be a nurse...but, I'm sure that you already know how nice he is." To hear those words from so many people has helped to soften the loss that we're feeling.
Sanford was blessed to have enjoyed a wonderful life here on earth and now he has the Wings and the Halo that everyone knows that he earned.
Relatives, friends and neighbors joined us in a Celebration of Life in his honor Saturday afternoon November 29. A camera malfunction makes it impossible for me to to share with you pictures of the joyous occasion. Later that evening after the celebration, family and friends who had come home with us, wrote messages to Sanford on the helium filled balloons that we'd brought home from the celebration. We then went outside and released them. We watched in awe as they floated up into the atmosphere, all together in a group.
If you have a computer or are able to access one, you are invited to visit the loving Memorial website created by our 3 daughters and we’d be so pleased if you would sign the Memory Book. [We plan to have it printed] http://memorialwebsites.legacy.com/ourhero/Homepage.aspx
We wish to extend our heartfelt appreciation to all of our friends and neighbors for your kindness, sympathy and loving support at a time when it was needed and deeply appreciated.
Best wishes for a Healthy, Happy, Prosperous New Year.
Losing him is very difficult for me and for our family but we take comfort in knowing that he no longer has to deal with earthly troubles and pains, that he is in a better place, that in spirit, he is still with us and that we will be with him again.
I told our girls that if Sanford had a headstone, it would certainly include the phrase that almost everyone has said to us: "He was a very nice man."The second day that he was in hospice, one of his nurses told us: "He is such a nice man.. if all patients were as nice as he is...everyone would want to be a nurse...but, I'm sure that you already know how nice he is." To hear those words from so many people has helped to soften the loss that we're feeling.
Sanford was blessed to have enjoyed a wonderful life here on earth and now he has the Wings and the Halo that everyone knows that he earned.
Relatives, friends and neighbors joined us in a Celebration of Life in his honor Saturday afternoon November 29. A camera malfunction makes it impossible for me to to share with you pictures of the joyous occasion. Later that evening after the celebration, family and friends who had come home with us, wrote messages to Sanford on the helium filled balloons that we'd brought home from the celebration. We then went outside and released them. We watched in awe as they floated up into the atmosphere, all together in a group.
If you have a computer or are able to access one, you are invited to visit the loving Memorial website created by our 3 daughters and we’d be so pleased if you would sign the Memory Book. [We plan to have it printed] http://memorialwebsites.legacy.com/ourhero/Homepage.aspx
We wish to extend our heartfelt appreciation to all of our friends and neighbors for your kindness, sympathy and loving support at a time when it was needed and deeply appreciated.
Best wishes for a Healthy, Happy, Prosperous New Year.
Sunday, November 9, 2008
On The Road Of LIfe
Last night at the hospital, Sanford and the rest of us decided it would be best if he were in a hospice center rather than going back and forth between hospital and rehabs, as has happened, too frequently, the past 5 weeks. It is within a hospital. He is very near and easy for me to get there.
I was satisfied and assured that we had made the right decision when I saw how compassionate, kind and caring the caregivers are and the overall cleanliness.
Your prayrers would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you so very much.
I was satisfied and assured that we had made the right decision when I saw how compassionate, kind and caring the caregivers are and the overall cleanliness.
Your prayrers would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you so very much.
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
Good News
Today for a number of reasons, when I smile it is not just to present a strong front and give the impression that that I am capable of playing the hand that has been dealt us, but the main reason is because Julia is here with me. Julia is our baby daughter, Colette's Godmother.
Our other dear daughters Pam, Toni and and grand daughter Dorienne returned to Atlanta Sunday evening and Julia came Saturday night. Julia came in and took over everything . In our conversations and emails , she knew that I needed her and decided to come, even though she was in NYC with her own daughter who had surgery a few weeks a go.. Julia is like the sister that I never had. With her medical background, she knew exactly how to get everything and service that our insurance entitles us to and how to get it. Sanford does not have to return to a rehab facility [an option we did not know we have],she made sure that we got the needed home equipment and will continue to have some assistance/care, etc. I thank the Lord for sending Julia. She has made it possible for me to see beyond the next minute...hour. I no longer feel helpless and vulnerable. If San continues to get better he will, God willing, be coming home very soon.
Shortly after our girls left for the airport, San became sick and couldn't stop throwing up, we called 911 and they were here in 5 minutes and took him to the ER less than 10 min away. He had pancreatitis and was admitted. He looks good and feels good now..
Thanks for your prayers and please don't stop praying for us, because they are being heard and answered. We love you!!!
The 2nd reason for my smile is Obama is our new president.
"The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have".
Our other dear daughters Pam, Toni and and grand daughter Dorienne returned to Atlanta Sunday evening and Julia came Saturday night. Julia came in and took over everything . In our conversations and emails , she knew that I needed her and decided to come, even though she was in NYC with her own daughter who had surgery a few weeks a go.. Julia is like the sister that I never had. With her medical background, she knew exactly how to get everything and service that our insurance entitles us to and how to get it. Sanford does not have to return to a rehab facility [an option we did not know we have],she made sure that we got the needed home equipment and will continue to have some assistance/care, etc. I thank the Lord for sending Julia. She has made it possible for me to see beyond the next minute...hour. I no longer feel helpless and vulnerable. If San continues to get better he will, God willing, be coming home very soon.
Shortly after our girls left for the airport, San became sick and couldn't stop throwing up, we called 911 and they were here in 5 minutes and took him to the ER less than 10 min away. He had pancreatitis and was admitted. He looks good and feels good now..
Thanks for your prayers and please don't stop praying for us, because they are being heard and answered. We love you!!!
The 2nd reason for my smile is Obama is our new president.
"The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have".
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
THE RIDE CONTINUES
After a good weekend, yesterday, Sanford had stomach pain and was unable to keep food down, so rehab decided to send him back to the hospital. After a barrage of tests in the ER, they still don't know why it happened. He was treated and the decision was made to admit him.
We arrived at the hospital by ambulance at 5 PM and I got home at exactly 1 AM.
His group of doctors consulted together and then with us about him coming home soon rather than going back to rehab (with help for me in the the mornings to care for him), Visiting nurse, Physical Therapist and transportation for treatments. So we await their decision. To be continued....
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.You never know who's heart you will touch when you share a piece of your own.
We arrived at the hospital by ambulance at 5 PM and I got home at exactly 1 AM.
His group of doctors consulted together and then with us about him coming home soon rather than going back to rehab (with help for me in the the mornings to care for him), Visiting nurse, Physical Therapist and transportation for treatments. So we await their decision. To be continued....
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.You never know who's heart you will touch when you share a piece of your own.
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Deja Vu.....
Sanford, was happy to return home from Rehab late afternoon Thursday. Friday he was 110%.. only to wake up Saturday morning with a swollen leg and was extremely weak, apparently due to the internal bleeding overnight. Paramedics took him back to the hospital around noon. They discovered that he also had a blood clot in his leg, however, they could not give him blood thinners, due to the condition of his kidney. So they had to insert a filter to prevent the clot or piece/s of it from getting to his lung. While he had that procedure Colette and I went to the mall that was nearby to get something eat...the hospital's cafeteria food is not the best.
The rooms in the ER are private with a TV, which was great because he was able to watch old war movies between tests, when he wasn't dozing. LOL As we waited for another procedure/test, he fell asleep and I turned off the light and slept ... so soundly that when the nurse and doctor came in she had to say 'Hello' twice before I woke up.
Colette and I left about 9:30 PM ... after he was transferred to and settled in the ICU.
Sunday, after lunch, Colette and I went to visit and he was in bed dozing, but woke up and started watching a football game. Monday he was transferred up to the regular floor. No oxygen, nor tubes, just the port, which prevents him from having to be stuck with any more needles.. He was doing great when I visited him.
We don't know what to expect or when... like whether he will come home or go back to rehab or ?? He has referrals to see at least 5 doctors after he returns home and he is stronger, 3 of which include 'out patient' procedures.
This will be an that October I will always remember.
To be continued......................
Thursday, October 16, 2008
SANFORD IS BACK HOME
Just had to share the good news with you .. This afternoon Sanford, was discharged from the Rehab Center to complete recuperation at home; after 9 days in the hospital and 6 days in the rehab center. He is still weak, but like me and many others, he is so happy that he is back home again. There is NO place like home!
Yesterday in Atlanta, our #2 Daughter,Toni, was diagnosed with pneumonia. Poor baby, since last week she thought she had a bad cold.
Yesterday in Atlanta, our #2 Daughter,Toni, was diagnosed with pneumonia. Poor baby, since last week she thought she had a bad cold.
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
WE'VE TURNED STILL ANOTHER CORNER
It's been a very stressful weekend.
On Friday Sanford was transferred to a rehab facility which we discovered was, in our opinion, sub standard and unacceptable. Plus it required me to travel 1 & 1/2 hours on 3 buses to get there (I did that only one time, I was driven there other times).
On Monday I made MANY calls and today (Tuesday) he was transferred to the facility that he should have been sent to on Friday...which is less than 1/2 hour away from home by bus.
first facility was giving him foods that he should not have on a Renal diet, including fried chicken and a ham and cheese sandwich...Duhhhhh.
But Thank God, he's out of there and in a better facility where we won't have to worry about him getting proper care. We will all sleep better tonight.
The physical therapist said that he could be there for a week or two, depending upon his progress.
Thanks again for your prayers.
On Friday Sanford was transferred to a rehab facility which we discovered was, in our opinion, sub standard and unacceptable. Plus it required me to travel 1 & 1/2 hours on 3 buses to get there (I did that only one time, I was driven there other times).
On Monday I made MANY calls and today (Tuesday) he was transferred to the facility that he should have been sent to on Friday...which is less than 1/2 hour away from home by bus.
first facility was giving him foods that he should not have on a Renal diet, including fried chicken and a ham and cheese sandwich...Duhhhhh.
But Thank God, he's out of there and in a better facility where we won't have to worry about him getting proper care. We will all sleep better tonight.
The physical therapist said that he could be there for a week or two, depending upon his progress.
Thanks again for your prayers.
Saturday, October 11, 2008
We Turned A Corner Yesterday
Yesterday we turned another corner on the road of life... Sanford was transferred to a nice rehab center. It seems to be exactly what he needed. He's happier there. Colette [#3 DD] says it's partly because he's no longer confined to the bed and can finally get up and move about. She took a picture of him while we were there today, which I'm going to try to post.
The lady from Rehab, took him for a walk down the hall, with him using his walker. He did so well, she told him he 'won't be in there for long'. Being able to get out of bed and that open back hospital gown and putting on his own clothes also helped to lift his spirits.
Today he was out of bed most of the day, sitting in the chair, doing one of his favorite past times...watching football on the TV. All of the above made for a real Red Letter Day. God is really Good!! All the time.
San would say that he never had a moment of pain...if he doesn't mention those times when some incompetent nurses attempted to take a blood sample. He's so kind .... When it was obvious that they were not good at getting blood samples, he would not ask them to get someone else. It makes me so sad to see the big bruises all over his arms, knowing that they don't have to be there and he didn't have to suffer... if the techs had only used the port, rather than sticking him.
I am quite sure all of your prayers and ours were heard and answered. There are absolutely no words to accurately express our most sincere appreciation for all of your prayers and expressions of kindness, so I'll just say Thank you! and God bless you!!
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle. You never know who's heart you will touch when you share a piece of your own.
The lady from Rehab, took him for a walk down the hall, with him using his walker. He did so well, she told him he 'won't be in there for long'. Being able to get out of bed and that open back hospital gown and putting on his own clothes also helped to lift his spirits.
Today he was out of bed most of the day, sitting in the chair, doing one of his favorite past times...watching football on the TV. All of the above made for a real Red Letter Day. God is really Good!! All the time.
San would say that he never had a moment of pain...if he doesn't mention those times when some incompetent nurses attempted to take a blood sample. He's so kind .... When it was obvious that they were not good at getting blood samples, he would not ask them to get someone else. It makes me so sad to see the big bruises all over his arms, knowing that they don't have to be there and he didn't have to suffer... if the techs had only used the port, rather than sticking him.
I am quite sure all of your prayers and ours were heard and answered. There are absolutely no words to accurately express our most sincere appreciation for all of your prayers and expressions of kindness, so I'll just say Thank you! and God bless you!!
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle. You never know who's heart you will touch when you share a piece of your own.
Saturday, October 4, 2008
UPDATE ON SANFORD
I visited Sanford this afternoon and I am so happy to be able to tell you that he sounded and looked good and was eating good too.. he was like his normal self...teasing and joking with the nursing staff. I think it is at least partially due to the Procrit injections.
Recent test results indicate that he has Gall Stones and an enlrged heart. Yesterday he also had a nuclear bone scan, no results yet.
He has at least 5 doctors plus a consult.
We can't say thank you enough for your prayers, good wishes and your concern. May God bless you all.
Recent test results indicate that he has Gall Stones and an enlrged heart. Yesterday he also had a nuclear bone scan, no results yet.
He has at least 5 doctors plus a consult.
We can't say thank you enough for your prayers, good wishes and your concern. May God bless you all.
Friday, October 3, 2008
FIRST OCTOBER UPDATE
Late Wednesday night Sanford was admitted to the hospital for tests and blood transfusions. Next day our doctor decided to have the planned and scheduled tests and procedures done while he's still in the hospital. After what was learned today I wonder if she will feel the same when she learns what was discovered today.. for example, gallstones have been added to the list of problems/conditions and about the parathyroid situation that had been put on a back burner.
We are both glad that he's there so that everything possible will be done for him in as short a time as possible, rather than over weeks or maybe even months. Due to the anemia, he's weak but he has begun the Procrit injections which will make him feel so much better.
The best news in all of this is that he has NO pain. Thank God.
We are both glad that he's there so that everything possible will be done for him in as short a time as possible, rather than over weeks or maybe even months. Due to the anemia, he's weak but he has begun the Procrit injections which will make him feel so much better.
The best news in all of this is that he has NO pain. Thank God.
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
UPDATE
UPDATE re Sanford's MRI
Our doctor's nurse called to say the the MRI was 'Allright'. When I asked if it showed a TIA, was told the MRI does not show TIAs.. Helloooooo???? Will discuss with doctor later.
It is with much happiness that I say that Sanford is fine, except for a bit of short term memory loss here and there. Physically...he seems fine, Thank God. And thank you for your prayers.
Our doctor's nurse called to say the the MRI was 'Allright'. When I asked if it showed a TIA, was told the MRI does not show TIAs.. Helloooooo???? Will discuss with doctor later.
It is with much happiness that I say that Sanford is fine, except for a bit of short term memory loss here and there. Physically...he seems fine, Thank God. And thank you for your prayers.
Friday, September 19, 2008
A Better Friday Than Last Week's
Last Friday was a day that I would not like to have to re-live. It was [as is with everyone who has experienced it] a very traumatic surprise. I thank God for this blessed Friday... Sanford is almost back to where he was before last Friday..
After much research on the internet...we think that what he experienced was a TIA [a mini stroke]. Of the more than 6 websites that I checked, they ALL included one of his symptoms ... loss of balance.
Yesterday he had an MRI of his brain and next Monday afternoon we hope that our primary doctor will be able to tell us the results of that MRI and good news.
We've been blessed with 'Happy Anniversary' calls all day from family and friends. Instead of celebrating our 60th anniversary on the cruise ship, we are blessed to be having dinner together at our own dining room table with our youngest daughter and my brother. She is preparing the meal and she is a really great cook. Not only do we think so, but so does everyone who has ever eaten anything that she's prepared. She IS great!!
Wishing everyone a great weekend.
Bunni
954- 746-9997
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.
You never know who's heart you will touch when you share a piece of your own.
After much research on the internet...we think that what he experienced was a TIA [a mini stroke]. Of the more than 6 websites that I checked, they ALL included one of his symptoms ... loss of balance.
Yesterday he had an MRI of his brain and next Monday afternoon we hope that our primary doctor will be able to tell us the results of that MRI and good news.
We've been blessed with 'Happy Anniversary' calls all day from family and friends. Instead of celebrating our 60th anniversary on the cruise ship, we are blessed to be having dinner together at our own dining room table with our youngest daughter and my brother. She is preparing the meal and she is a really great cook. Not only do we think so, but so does everyone who has ever eaten anything that she's prepared. She IS great!!
Wishing everyone a great weekend.
Bunni
954- 746-9997
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.
You never know who's heart you will touch when you share a piece of your own.
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Man Plans...But...
Once again, I'm reminded of that old saying "Man plans...But GOD commands". We had to cancel our cruise and fortunately, as always, we had purchased insurance..
Friday morning Sanford awakened unable to stand alone unaided for some unknown reason. He has to use a cane for balance. Our doctor has ordered a walker for him. Thursday the doctor had advised him that his white BC was very high again and ordered another lab test. However, there was no indication that was the cause of his balance problem. Next week he will get a brain scan and see a neurologist.
A short while ago we were concerned that a hurricane might interfere with us going on the cruise, now we're reminded of the words in a song "The future's not ours to see...Que Sera, Sera (Whatever Will Be, Will Be)".
I am disappointed and somewhat relieved at the same time. I admit that I was somewhat concerned that there could be a medical emergency while on the cruise. Now I look at whatever it was that happened to San as another blessing in disguise .. It could have happened while we were on the cruise. Thank God, it happened before the cruise...here at home where our support system is.
I hope that you will keep us in your prayers.
...Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.You never know who's heart you will touch when you share a piece of your own.
Friday morning Sanford awakened unable to stand alone unaided for some unknown reason. He has to use a cane for balance. Our doctor has ordered a walker for him. Thursday the doctor had advised him that his white BC was very high again and ordered another lab test. However, there was no indication that was the cause of his balance problem. Next week he will get a brain scan and see a neurologist.
A short while ago we were concerned that a hurricane might interfere with us going on the cruise, now we're reminded of the words in a song "The future's not ours to see...Que Sera, Sera (Whatever Will Be, Will Be)".
I am disappointed and somewhat relieved at the same time. I admit that I was somewhat concerned that there could be a medical emergency while on the cruise. Now I look at whatever it was that happened to San as another blessing in disguise .. It could have happened while we were on the cruise. Thank God, it happened before the cruise...here at home where our support system is.
I hope that you will keep us in your prayers.
...Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.You never know who's heart you will touch when you share a piece of your own.
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Flying and Cruising
We've been blessed and dodged another bullet. Hurricane Ike has kindly passed us by and is now on the Gulf side of our state. Thus far, no other distubances are out there threatening to spoil our cruise. TG.
This past weekend we finally went to Atlanta to see Pam and the others.. It was truly a wonderful weekend! The airport scene had none of the drama and hassle that you read or hear about. In fact, I would say that at TSA at MIA, left a lot to be desired security wise. We had 2 [empty] stainless steel thermos bottles in our bags which we expected them to react to.. We had our toiletries in a zip lock bag prepared to show TSA, but no one asked to see them.
We spent Saturday afternoon at the Georgia Aquarium, where I bought a large [6 X 3 1/2 inch] egg shaped crystal paper weight with a jelly fish inside... which made TSA open my bag at the Atlanta airport to see what I had.. Once again...no one asked to see our toiletries, which included mouthwash and they didn't mention the thermoses. None of this reassured me that our planes are any safer since 911. It makes me wonder what other "unsafe " items have been allowed on board our planes and how often it happens.
God willing, Sunday we begin our 60th Wedding Anniversary Caribbean cruise. It's going to be a little different this time, after cruising with the family on our last 2 cruises. We've come full circle .. from 1979 to 2005 .. it was just the 2 of us when we took a cruise.
I have to go now and get ready for our sail into the sunset. Did I say that?
This past weekend we finally went to Atlanta to see Pam and the others.. It was truly a wonderful weekend! The airport scene had none of the drama and hassle that you read or hear about. In fact, I would say that at TSA at MIA, left a lot to be desired security wise. We had 2 [empty] stainless steel thermos bottles in our bags which we expected them to react to.. We had our toiletries in a zip lock bag prepared to show TSA, but no one asked to see them.
We spent Saturday afternoon at the Georgia Aquarium, where I bought a large [6 X 3 1/2 inch] egg shaped crystal paper weight with a jelly fish inside... which made TSA open my bag at the Atlanta airport to see what I had.. Once again...no one asked to see our toiletries, which included mouthwash and they didn't mention the thermoses. None of this reassured me that our planes are any safer since 911. It makes me wonder what other "unsafe " items have been allowed on board our planes and how often it happens.
God willing, Sunday we begin our 60th Wedding Anniversary Caribbean cruise. It's going to be a little different this time, after cruising with the family on our last 2 cruises. We've come full circle .. from 1979 to 2005 .. it was just the 2 of us when we took a cruise.
I have to go now and get ready for our sail into the sunset. Did I say that?
Saturday, August 23, 2008
29 More Days of Summer
I just came her create a new blog...I thought I had been posted this one back on August 28, only to find that it was a Draft . So much going on I forgot it. Sorry it's a bit late.
[Created August 28]
Now that things are almost back to normal ... no hurricane on the horizon for now ... Sanford stable and Pam doing fine, we took a chance and finally booked our cruise [including insurance]. It's a 7 day Eastern Caribbean cruise, Sept 14 -21, which includes our 60th Wedding Anniversary [Sept 19]. Hmmmm... That's more than 3/4 of my lifetime...best time of my life.
What with our Pam in treatment, Grands/G-grands in school, the high cost of air fares and astronomical gasoline prices, we chose to go away and celebrate so that no one would feel bad about not being able to celebrate this very special occassion with us.
We are praying that nothing changes that we have to change our plans.
I love cruises. I think a cruise is the ideal vacation. While I worked for TWA, I flew all over the world and saw just about everything I wanted to see. Now I just love cruising...especially with all the craziness at the airports theses days ... We pack one time and visit different places and never have to plan what/or where to eat or how to get there. With so many options: going/not going ashore, entertainment choices, meeting/spending time with new people, lounging around the pool with a cool drink, etc. and last but not least... being served and pampered, 24 7.
[Created August 28]
Now that things are almost back to normal ... no hurricane on the horizon for now ... Sanford stable and Pam doing fine, we took a chance and finally booked our cruise [including insurance]. It's a 7 day Eastern Caribbean cruise, Sept 14 -21, which includes our 60th Wedding Anniversary [Sept 19]. Hmmmm... That's more than 3/4 of my lifetime...best time of my life.
What with our Pam in treatment, Grands/G-grands in school, the high cost of air fares and astronomical gasoline prices, we chose to go away and celebrate so that no one would feel bad about not being able to celebrate this very special occassion with us.
We are praying that nothing changes that we have to change our plans.
I love cruises. I think a cruise is the ideal vacation. While I worked for TWA, I flew all over the world and saw just about everything I wanted to see. Now I just love cruising...especially with all the craziness at the airports theses days ... We pack one time and visit different places and never have to plan what/or where to eat or how to get there. With so many options: going/not going ashore, entertainment choices, meeting/spending time with new people, lounging around the pool with a cool drink, etc. and last but not least... being served and pampered, 24 7.
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Playing Another Hand
It's that time of year when here in South Florida we have to be prepared for the possibility of a tropical storm or hurricane. Preparations include putting storm protections in place, having enough medicines, water and food, etc. for at least 5 days. At this monent we are on a Tropical Storm Watch as TS Fay approaches Key West, where they are on Hurricane Watch. Tomorrow the first day of school, the schools are closed as well as the next day, because the schools are used as shelters for those whose homes may be unsafe in the event that it does become a hurricane.
Prior to hurricane Wilma back in 2006 we felt reasonably safe, but after a little rain damage we realized the need for storm shutters. We procrastinated, but fortunately we had them installed...just 2 weeks ago. After Wilma, we were without electricity for 8 long days, but we were blessed, some were without for weeks.
Last Wednesday Sanford had his 4th of 6 scheduled cancer treatments. Since his transfusions he feels stronger, Thank God..
On Thursday Pam had her 1st of 3 chemo treatments [scheduled every 3rd week for a 12 week period]. Unlike the frequently heard stories about side affects of chemo treatment, she was blessed, she didn't have any. Her being back in her class room, teaching, less than a month after her surgery makes her Phenomenal in my book. She's a a trooper, God bless her.
On Friday Sanford visited to his new Oncologist. And was advised that it is a possibility that he will need radiation treatments. Won't know for sure until after he has a PET scan.
This past Thursday a cousin from Los Angeles, whom I haven't seen in more than 10 years visited us. Everyone enjoyed her short visit with us. After she left I was a little sad, because she lives so far away and as I thought about it ... realized that I don't know when or if I will see her again. As we age our family means so much more to us than when we were younger. I have 7 First cousins that I know of [my uncle was married twice and I don't know the children from his first marriage]. Of the 7 cousins that I do know, my brother is the oldest male and and I am the oldest female. I know that age is just a number and the higher it is, the more blessed you are. It is a strange feeling to think/realize that I'm older than all of the other female blood relatives........
I've considered a genealogy search and hope to begin one ...one of these days.
Prior to hurricane Wilma back in 2006 we felt reasonably safe, but after a little rain damage we realized the need for storm shutters. We procrastinated, but fortunately we had them installed...just 2 weeks ago. After Wilma, we were without electricity for 8 long days, but we were blessed, some were without for weeks.
Last Wednesday Sanford had his 4th of 6 scheduled cancer treatments. Since his transfusions he feels stronger, Thank God..
On Thursday Pam had her 1st of 3 chemo treatments [scheduled every 3rd week for a 12 week period]. Unlike the frequently heard stories about side affects of chemo treatment, she was blessed, she didn't have any. Her being back in her class room, teaching, less than a month after her surgery makes her Phenomenal in my book. She's a a trooper, God bless her.
On Friday Sanford visited to his new Oncologist. And was advised that it is a possibility that he will need radiation treatments. Won't know for sure until after he has a PET scan.
This past Thursday a cousin from Los Angeles, whom I haven't seen in more than 10 years visited us. Everyone enjoyed her short visit with us. After she left I was a little sad, because she lives so far away and as I thought about it ... realized that I don't know when or if I will see her again. As we age our family means so much more to us than when we were younger. I have 7 First cousins that I know of [my uncle was married twice and I don't know the children from his first marriage]. Of the 7 cousins that I do know, my brother is the oldest male and and I am the oldest female. I know that age is just a number and the higher it is, the more blessed you are. It is a strange feeling to think/realize that I'm older than all of the other female blood relatives........
I've considered a genealogy search and hope to begin one ...one of these days.
Saturday, August 9, 2008
Things Are Getting Better , TG
This week has been the best in quite a while, thanks to our good Lord. Sanford's feeling good again since getting his transfusions.
And Pam has had an incredible week back at school. Her little 'army of angels' have really been there for her like you wouldn't believe. She met the mother of a former student in the supermarket and after they talked for a while, the mother promised to bring her boys to school to help Pam get settled in her new classroom. Well, that mother showed up with her four boys and at least 6 other boys. The boys went into the classroom and got busy working like they'd done it all before...with almost no instructions they were putting things where they belong and hanging stuff up, etc..
Pam's best friend's friend has a daughter who will be in Pam's class and when that mother came to see Pam, she said that she too, is a breast cancer survivor and a nurse. She shared lots of info and promised to be there when Pam goes for her treatments.
These are just two of many expressions of love showed our DD. We feel more blessed than words can express. Pam told us that she doesn't know what she did to deserve all the love and care she's receiving, but she's glad she did whatever it was.
It seems the whole school is also offering their support. Like a teacher tells a kid that they're going to call their parent, one of Pam's teacher friends told her that if she didn't sit down and stop working, she was going to call Dorienne [Pam's daughter]. LOL.
Her first week back in school was better than she could have ever imagined. God IS Good ... All the time!!
And Pam has had an incredible week back at school. Her little 'army of angels' have really been there for her like you wouldn't believe. She met the mother of a former student in the supermarket and after they talked for a while, the mother promised to bring her boys to school to help Pam get settled in her new classroom. Well, that mother showed up with her four boys and at least 6 other boys. The boys went into the classroom and got busy working like they'd done it all before...with almost no instructions they were putting things where they belong and hanging stuff up, etc..
Pam's best friend's friend has a daughter who will be in Pam's class and when that mother came to see Pam, she said that she too, is a breast cancer survivor and a nurse. She shared lots of info and promised to be there when Pam goes for her treatments.
These are just two of many expressions of love showed our DD. We feel more blessed than words can express. Pam told us that she doesn't know what she did to deserve all the love and care she's receiving, but she's glad she did whatever it was.
It seems the whole school is also offering their support. Like a teacher tells a kid that they're going to call their parent, one of Pam's teacher friends told her that if she didn't sit down and stop working, she was going to call Dorienne [Pam's daughter]. LOL.
Her first week back in school was better than she could have ever imagined. God IS Good ... All the time!!
Friday, August 1, 2008
TGIF
Looking back.. this week reminds me of a winding road with potholes and bumps.
It started Monday with our follow-up appointment with our Primary Physician. [DH] Sanford was very weak due to anemia. Dr.B. ordered lab work to be done [STAT ] Tuesday morning. About 2 pm Tuesday afternoon, she called us with instructions to go to the hospital Wednesday morning for blood type and cross match...for the 2 transfusions she had scheduled for Thursday. DH's RBC had dropped a lot since his last visit.
On Tuesday, Pam, our DD in Atlanta, who recently had a mastectomy called to let us know that her oncologist had decided that she will need chemo treatment which is called TCH. The port is being implanted today and her treatments begin next week.
On Wednesday when DH went to the urologist for his second cancer treatment, he was advised that the former urologist had not faxed his medical records re the previous bladder cancer, claimed they never got the request. :( Maybe ... Maybe Not ???????
Finally got some good news Wednesday from Noelle, our youngest (17 year old) granddaughter. This will be her senior year and for several reasons she wants to work. She was the FIRST 'interviewee', on her FIRST job interview... and she got her FIRST job. She will be working for Circuit City...selling cameras. She is so excited and of course we're really proud of her as well as happy for her. She is so looking forward to working Black Friday, the day after Thanksgiving, when people start lining up outside of the stores the night before.
We had planned to go to Atlanta to visit Pam after DH's transfusions, but the flights we wanted were not available. So we decided to postpone the trip, which our children thought was a good idea. Said we should wait until DH is feeling strong again. I am so glad we decided not to go because, though DH feels somewhat better, he doesn't feel as strong today as he thought he would. But we're looking forward to better days.
No plans for the weekend except to go to Mass.
Y'all have a Happy........
It started Monday with our follow-up appointment with our Primary Physician. [DH] Sanford was very weak due to anemia. Dr.B. ordered lab work to be done [STAT ] Tuesday morning. About 2 pm Tuesday afternoon, she called us with instructions to go to the hospital Wednesday morning for blood type and cross match...for the 2 transfusions she had scheduled for Thursday. DH's RBC had dropped a lot since his last visit.
On Tuesday, Pam, our DD in Atlanta, who recently had a mastectomy called to let us know that her oncologist had decided that she will need chemo treatment which is called TCH. The port is being implanted today and her treatments begin next week.
On Wednesday when DH went to the urologist for his second cancer treatment, he was advised that the former urologist had not faxed his medical records re the previous bladder cancer, claimed they never got the request. :( Maybe ... Maybe Not ???????
Finally got some good news Wednesday from Noelle, our youngest (17 year old) granddaughter. This will be her senior year and for several reasons she wants to work. She was the FIRST 'interviewee', on her FIRST job interview... and she got her FIRST job. She will be working for Circuit City...selling cameras. She is so excited and of course we're really proud of her as well as happy for her. She is so looking forward to working Black Friday, the day after Thanksgiving, when people start lining up outside of the stores the night before.
We had planned to go to Atlanta to visit Pam after DH's transfusions, but the flights we wanted were not available. So we decided to postpone the trip, which our children thought was a good idea. Said we should wait until DH is feeling strong again. I am so glad we decided not to go because, though DH feels somewhat better, he doesn't feel as strong today as he thought he would. But we're looking forward to better days.
No plans for the weekend except to go to Mass.
Y'all have a Happy........
Monday, July 14, 2008
Today We Began to Play A New Hand
Today we were dealt a new hand. Not one that anyone would welcome, but as we all know, we must play the hand that we're dealt.
Pam, our oldest daughter has been diagnosed with breast cancer [as I was in 2002]. She's scheduled for surgery Thursday morning July 17 in Georgia. As much as we'd like to...we aren't able to be there with her physically, but in spirit we will be....I'll be holding her hand. She's following in her Mom's footsteps in more ways than one...I knew 10 days before I shared the news with my family, because I didn't want them to worry. Her Dad and I and her baby sister live here in FL and her other sister also lives in Georgia. Last year she was widowed. When she called this afternoon to tell us, all of the arrangements had already been made...Who's driving her to the hospital, who'll be waiting/sitting vigil during her surgery, who's going home with her, who's staying...etc.. When her late husband, Donald died, we learned that she has one of the best support systems you could wish for. She's a 5th grade teacher and her support system consists of family, church, staff and students' parents from the schools that she has taught, the staff and parents at her current school and a multitude of friends. And the amazing thing is how well they co-ordinate and work together.
She understands that we can't be there now because her Dad is getting treatment for his latest cancer. Her 23 year old daughter, her sister, niece and nephew will be there for her, as well as her big support system. And we will talk every day. Everyone is fine with that.
Pam, our oldest daughter has been diagnosed with breast cancer [as I was in 2002]. She's scheduled for surgery Thursday morning July 17 in Georgia. As much as we'd like to...we aren't able to be there with her physically, but in spirit we will be....I'll be holding her hand. She's following in her Mom's footsteps in more ways than one...I knew 10 days before I shared the news with my family, because I didn't want them to worry. Her Dad and I and her baby sister live here in FL and her other sister also lives in Georgia. Last year she was widowed. When she called this afternoon to tell us, all of the arrangements had already been made...Who's driving her to the hospital, who'll be waiting/sitting vigil during her surgery, who's going home with her, who's staying...etc.. When her late husband, Donald died, we learned that she has one of the best support systems you could wish for. She's a 5th grade teacher and her support system consists of family, church, staff and students' parents from the schools that she has taught, the staff and parents at her current school and a multitude of friends. And the amazing thing is how well they co-ordinate and work together.
She understands that we can't be there now because her Dad is getting treatment for his latest cancer. Her 23 year old daughter, her sister, niece and nephew will be there for her, as well as her big support system. And we will talk every day. Everyone is fine with that.
Sunday, July 13, 2008
One Of My Best Surprises
I had one of my best surprises on Friday evening. I was where you will find me most evenings after dinner, sitting here at my computer.
I hear this little soft voice say "Hi GNana" and I think I must be dreaming as I look up and coming into the room are our 2 great grandsons. And as I usually do when my family sneaks up and surprises me. I'm up and yelling "OMG!! OMG!! I don't believe this! I don't believe this! OMG!! OMG!!". Their Grandmother, Toni, our # 2 daughter had driven down from Atlanta with her son and his 2 sons. We hadn't seen the boys in 2 years. We speak with them on the phone often and see pictures of them, but I did miss them more than I realized till I saw them. I swooped them up and hugged and kissed them till, as little boys do, they wriggled out of my arms. And then their father, our oldest grand, Bruce, came into the room and I started all over again. Meanwhile, Toni is taking pictures with her video camera. Toni said when they were sneaking in with the camera ready, she said "Let's see how loud she's gonna scream this time".
It gives them pleasure to surprise us like that. It has happened many times before but the little boys were the last ones in the family to witness my response to the surprise visits. I love my family so much. And I pray that it continues to happen.
They left a couple of hours ago, going back to GA. Word's can't express how happy it made me to have them visit, even though it was a short one. We managed to squeeze in some happy moments, including going to the pool for a few hours, a visit to a local aquarium store that's like a mini aquarium. The boys loved being so close to the huge sharks in the big tanks like you find in a real aquarium.
God is good ...All the time!!
I hear this little soft voice say "Hi GNana" and I think I must be dreaming as I look up and coming into the room are our 2 great grandsons. And as I usually do when my family sneaks up and surprises me. I'm up and yelling "OMG!! OMG!! I don't believe this! I don't believe this! OMG!! OMG!!". Their Grandmother, Toni, our # 2 daughter had driven down from Atlanta with her son and his 2 sons. We hadn't seen the boys in 2 years. We speak with them on the phone often and see pictures of them, but I did miss them more than I realized till I saw them. I swooped them up and hugged and kissed them till, as little boys do, they wriggled out of my arms. And then their father, our oldest grand, Bruce, came into the room and I started all over again. Meanwhile, Toni is taking pictures with her video camera. Toni said when they were sneaking in with the camera ready, she said "Let's see how loud she's gonna scream this time".
It gives them pleasure to surprise us like that. It has happened many times before but the little boys were the last ones in the family to witness my response to the surprise visits. I love my family so much. And I pray that it continues to happen.
They left a couple of hours ago, going back to GA. Word's can't express how happy it made me to have them visit, even though it was a short one. We managed to squeeze in some happy moments, including going to the pool for a few hours, a visit to a local aquarium store that's like a mini aquarium. The boys loved being so close to the huge sharks in the big tanks like you find in a real aquarium.
God is good ...All the time!!
The New Hand We Were Dealt
The polyps that the doctor removed back in June were cancerous and another biopsy was done a week later, which showed that Sanford's polyps had high grade cancers. Wait...the news isn't as bad as it sounds. The doctor plans to treat the cancer, not with chemo nor radiation, but with the vaccine BCG.Which has been used to successfully treat bladder cancer. It was used for his initial bladder cancer. It is a cancer that requires close follow-up, which is what the doctor plans to do. The doctor's optimism has rubbed off on us.
We're comfortable with the hand that we were dealt. Please continue to keep us in your prayers, as we will keep you in ours.
We're comfortable with the hand that we were dealt. Please continue to keep us in your prayers, as we will keep you in ours.
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
June- the busy month --The Red Hat Society's 10th Anniversary Celebration
June was a very busy month for me... two doctor appointments, preparations for my trip and major problems with my computer... Once again it took several full days to resolve the PC problem. The router that I have been using and having problems with periodically, ever since we got it, added to the problem. AT&T said the problem had to be resolved by Belkin and Belkin said the problem had to resolved by AT&T, which forced me to purchase a new router. When I signed up for their service, AT&T failed to advise me that there could be compatibility issues using the Belkin router that I had. That worked to my advantage when I complained to the billing department as I ordered their combination modem/router.
After I installed the new AT&T router, I found that Murphy's Law was still with me... my printer wouldn't print. Just when I needed to print documents and confirmations and the like for my trip to the Red Hat Convention on June 20... I could not print anything. I sent everything to Colette in emails and she printed and brought them to me. After I returned... I investigated and learned that one of the printer's cables had become disconnected. Duhhhhh......
The CONVENTION
When you hear of a transportation mechanical delay you think of airplanes... well we had a 3 and half hour Amtrak delay on the way to the Orlando Convention. In addition to missing two group photo shoots, we arrived just after the dinner buffet had been removed from the ballroom where the meal and after-dinner show took place. Fortunately, I had cell-phoned ahead from the train and notified them that we would be late... they were kind enough to set up a table for us with all of the foods that were served at the buffet. After we were seated, When I told them that there were 3 more ladies outside that had arrived just after we did... they were brought in and joined us for dinner.
I and many others expressed disappointment... I didn't have as much fun as I did at the last convention. I'm not exactly sure of why... probably a combination of everything including my travel companions; and perhaps I expected too much because it was the Red Hat Society's 10th Anniversary and Annual International Convention. It left a lot to be desired in the overall planning. One would think that after 9 years they'd have everything down to a science.
It was beautiful and colorful. The theme was Sparkle of the Decades... Clothing worn was the same as what they wore in 1940, 1950, 1960, 1970, 1980 and the final night was the gala where the attire was 'Dress to Impress'. And out came the silks, satins, feathers, beads, bling and hats like you just wouldn't believe. Youcansee it in some of the pictures.
The entertainers were imitators of the entertainers of those decades... They were excellent!! To name a few of them: Tina Turner, Aretha Franklin, Little Richard, The Village people, the Blues Brothers. Elton John and there was music of the Temps, Tops, The Jackson Five and MANY others. Those ladies in all their finery was up and out there in their bare feet dancing like old times, sometimes for 2 hours non stop.. It was a sight to behold... women of all ages and sizes having the time of their lives. Here are a few pictures to give you an idea of what went on that weekend : http://picasaweb.google.com/Bunnierl/DecadesOfSparkle04
After I installed the new AT&T router, I found that Murphy's Law was still with me... my printer wouldn't print. Just when I needed to print documents and confirmations and the like for my trip to the Red Hat Convention on June 20... I could not print anything. I sent everything to Colette in emails and she printed and brought them to me. After I returned... I investigated and learned that one of the printer's cables had become disconnected. Duhhhhh......
The CONVENTION
When you hear of a transportation mechanical delay you think of airplanes... well we had a 3 and half hour Amtrak delay on the way to the Orlando Convention. In addition to missing two group photo shoots, we arrived just after the dinner buffet had been removed from the ballroom where the meal and after-dinner show took place. Fortunately, I had cell-phoned ahead from the train and notified them that we would be late... they were kind enough to set up a table for us with all of the foods that were served at the buffet. After we were seated, When I told them that there were 3 more ladies outside that had arrived just after we did... they were brought in and joined us for dinner.
I and many others expressed disappointment... I didn't have as much fun as I did at the last convention. I'm not exactly sure of why... probably a combination of everything including my travel companions; and perhaps I expected too much because it was the Red Hat Society's 10th Anniversary and Annual International Convention. It left a lot to be desired in the overall planning. One would think that after 9 years they'd have everything down to a science.
It was beautiful and colorful. The theme was Sparkle of the Decades... Clothing worn was the same as what they wore in 1940, 1950, 1960, 1970, 1980 and the final night was the gala where the attire was 'Dress to Impress'. And out came the silks, satins, feathers, beads, bling and hats like you just wouldn't believe. Youcansee it in some of the pictures.
The entertainers were imitators of the entertainers of those decades... They were excellent!! To name a few of them: Tina Turner, Aretha Franklin, Little Richard, The Village people, the Blues Brothers. Elton John and there was music of the Temps, Tops, The Jackson Five and MANY others. Those ladies in all their finery was up and out there in their bare feet dancing like old times, sometimes for 2 hours non stop.. It was a sight to behold... women of all ages and sizes having the time of their lives. Here are a few pictures to give you an idea of what went on that weekend : http://picasaweb.google.com/Bunnierl/DecadesOfSparkle04
This was one of 'Those' days
Today I was up at 5 am .. my DH had to be at the Outpatient Surgical Center at 6 am for removal of 3 polyps on his bladder. We are praying that they are benign... This will be one of the longest weeks in my life, till next Wednesday when we go to see the Urologist for the biopsy results.
I'm not a worrier... I believe in the power of pray. I believe that if you pray, you don't need to worry and if you're going to worry... don't bother to pray.
Because he had a kidney removed last year and is a 5 time cancer survivor, within the past 14 years... I sometimes find it hard to be as optimistic as I once was. We've been married almost 60 years, which explains why I'm feeling anxious. As we get older, we subconsciously worry or think 'what if' more than we did when we were younger.
I'm not a worrier... I believe in the power of pray. I believe that if you pray, you don't need to worry and if you're going to worry... don't bother to pray.
Because he had a kidney removed last year and is a 5 time cancer survivor, within the past 14 years... I sometimes find it hard to be as optimistic as I once was. We've been married almost 60 years, which explains why I'm feeling anxious. As we get older, we subconsciously worry or think 'what if' more than we did when we were younger.
Monday, June 9, 2008
CancellationTravel Insurance
Most people, including myself, purchase cancellation insurance when going on a cruise or any travel arrangement which has a cancellation penalty. While checking rates for a cruise we'd like to take in September, I noticed that some of the ads for cruises offer free cancellation insurance.
After reading that I compared the insurance rates and much to my surprise and dismay, I discovered that some companies will not sell insurance to people over a certain age [75 years].
I was aware that some car rental companies won't rent to people under and over certain ages... the rules vary from company to company as well as from country to country.
In the past we always purchased insurance when we took cruises and our last cruise was in 2006. At that time both of us were over 75 ... which makes me wonder what would have happened, if we'd had to cancel the cruise... We have use that same company in the past. Perhaps they didn't/don't have that clause. I plan to call and ask if they do have age restrictions and if yes, what they are.
I did more research on the Internet and the advice was always 'Read the contract before you sign'. Now I'm wondering how many of the MANY Seniors here in Florida, who take cruises every 3 or 4 months know about the age cutoff. Can you imagine what would happen if they bought insurance and became ill just before the sail date or during the cruise and the insurance company told them they weren't covered.... Ooops!
There may be a 'work around' for us... instead of taking a 7 to 10 day cruise... book last minute 3-5 day cruises.
To be continued.
After reading that I compared the insurance rates and much to my surprise and dismay, I discovered that some companies will not sell insurance to people over a certain age [75 years].
I was aware that some car rental companies won't rent to people under and over certain ages... the rules vary from company to company as well as from country to country.
In the past we always purchased insurance when we took cruises and our last cruise was in 2006. At that time both of us were over 75 ... which makes me wonder what would have happened, if we'd had to cancel the cruise... We have use that same company in the past. Perhaps they didn't/don't have that clause. I plan to call and ask if they do have age restrictions and if yes, what they are.
I did more research on the Internet and the advice was always 'Read the contract before you sign'. Now I'm wondering how many of the MANY Seniors here in Florida, who take cruises every 3 or 4 months know about the age cutoff. Can you imagine what would happen if they bought insurance and became ill just before the sail date or during the cruise and the insurance company told them they weren't covered.... Ooops!
There may be a 'work around' for us... instead of taking a 7 to 10 day cruise... book last minute 3-5 day cruises.
To be continued.
Friday, June 6, 2008
You think you know people and how they think and then something happens that makes you realize that you really didn't know them at all.
Some one close to me was telling me about a discussion he had with someone on his job. The other person said that they were going to apply for another position... And he told them, "They won't hire you!!". I interrupted and asked him why would he say something like that. Even if it were true, it's not his place to say something like that.
He replied, that he tells people the truth, he doesn't believe in sugar coating the truth.
I told him you shouldn't say things that you know will hurt people's feelings.
He said he 'just tells them the truth. Most people can't handle the truth'.
I reminded him of things that he's said to others and to me in the past that showed total disregard for the feelings of the people he was speaking to.
I told him that he has no right to deliberately hurt people's feelings.
He jumped up... saying "I don't like the atmosphere in here, I'm leaving".
I said, "Yes, you are right, people don't like hearing the truth, that's why you're leaving."
He continued out the door, all the while mumbling about why he knows he's right when he told them what he did. '
Some one close to me was telling me about a discussion he had with someone on his job. The other person said that they were going to apply for another position... And he told them, "They won't hire you!!". I interrupted and asked him why would he say something like that. Even if it were true, it's not his place to say something like that.
He replied, that he tells people the truth, he doesn't believe in sugar coating the truth.
I told him you shouldn't say things that you know will hurt people's feelings.
He said he 'just tells them the truth. Most people can't handle the truth'.
I reminded him of things that he's said to others and to me in the past that showed total disregard for the feelings of the people he was speaking to.
I told him that he has no right to deliberately hurt people's feelings.
He jumped up... saying "I don't like the atmosphere in here, I'm leaving".
I said, "Yes, you are right, people don't like hearing the truth, that's why you're leaving."
He continued out the door, all the while mumbling about why he knows he's right when he told them what he did. '
Saturday, May 31, 2008
Memorial Day Weekend
MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND
We had no plans for the Memorial Day weekend, but Memorial Day weekend had plans for us.We have a first floor apartment and due to some kind of blockage in the line, about 11:30 pm Sunday night, we discovered that our kitchen sink and our neighbor's had backed up and flooded the floor and the foyer. We are so blessed that Colette and Noelle were here to help clean up the awful mess.Our kitchen floor is tiled, but the foyer is laminate flooring, which is now buckled. The cabinet containing the sink and the flooring has to be replaced... Because of the heat and moisture the cabinet has an unpleasant smell, in spite of the the fan drying it out and Oust. We're hoping that we can find someone to replace it.. like yesterday. Our home owners insurance adjuster came Wednesday to check on the damage. When he gets back to his office on Monday, he will recommend some companies that would be willing to do a small job like our kitchen. We are considering some other floor covering rather than replacing it with what what we have... We've learned that it's not a good choice for first floor dwellers. The laminate CAN NOT be repaired, it must be completely removed.... it covers the depth (?) of our apartment... from the front door to the patio doors in the rear.We are very much aware that we have some stressful days ahead... but they can't be avoided. The thought of having to pack all of the contents of the china cabinet and the 3 wall units is like a bad dream come true. But, we have no other choice... we do what we gotta do...... We're going to start packing the boxes now at our own pace, so that when the time comes to do the floors that will be behind us.
We had no plans for the Memorial Day weekend, but Memorial Day weekend had plans for us.We have a first floor apartment and due to some kind of blockage in the line, about 11:30 pm Sunday night, we discovered that our kitchen sink and our neighbor's had backed up and flooded the floor and the foyer. We are so blessed that Colette and Noelle were here to help clean up the awful mess.Our kitchen floor is tiled, but the foyer is laminate flooring, which is now buckled. The cabinet containing the sink and the flooring has to be replaced... Because of the heat and moisture the cabinet has an unpleasant smell, in spite of the the fan drying it out and Oust. We're hoping that we can find someone to replace it.. like yesterday. Our home owners insurance adjuster came Wednesday to check on the damage. When he gets back to his office on Monday, he will recommend some companies that would be willing to do a small job like our kitchen. We are considering some other floor covering rather than replacing it with what what we have... We've learned that it's not a good choice for first floor dwellers. The laminate CAN NOT be repaired, it must be completely removed.... it covers the depth (?) of our apartment... from the front door to the patio doors in the rear.We are very much aware that we have some stressful days ahead... but they can't be avoided. The thought of having to pack all of the contents of the china cabinet and the 3 wall units is like a bad dream come true. But, we have no other choice... we do what we gotta do...... We're going to start packing the boxes now at our own pace, so that when the time comes to do the floors that will be behind us.
Friday, May 30, 2008
HOARDING
I started this blog a few weeks ago and forgot to finish it, till now.
Some say being a pack rat/hoarder is a sickness or OCD [an obsessive compulsive disorder]...After reading a post on the Red Hat Site about hoarding/being a packrat, it brought back memories of our move here from NYC 14 years ago.
As we prepared to move we had boxes stacked from floor to ceiling in our large living room, with no room except to walk around them. Boxes carefully packed with breakables and linens. Accumulations of 31 years. It is incredible how much and what was saved. We had to make some very difficult decisions of what to take and what to discard. If only we knew then what we know now... that it's cheaper to buy new than to ship heavy furniture.
I find I'm back to where I was in NYC... with boxes and boxes of 'stuff' that must be disposed of.
At this time in our life we often see our peers transition.. leaving loved ones with the burden of disposing of their worldly possessions. I don't want my family to have to go through my junk or the guilt of disposing without looking to see what's there. So I've promised myself that starting next month I will be ruthless and de-clutter. Tossing anything not used in the past year including those old old papers I've been holding onto... Such as a newspaper clipping of my return home to Miami after my marriage; Program from my high school graduation; compliments from students I taught to use the computer and from satisfied passengers when I worked for TWA; Receipts for furniture [that we still have] purchased from Bloomingdale's back in the 1960s, etc.; clothing that I had plans to alter or restyle or whatever; things we felt that someone else may want that we replaced and no longer use... aka Clutter - Stuff - Crapola.
A while back when I acknowledged that I am a hoarder, I attempted to organize my clutter. Looking back I realize that really did not help, if anything it made matters worse. My goal is to get RID of the clutter rather than organize it. Wish me luck.
Some say being a pack rat/hoarder is a sickness or OCD [an obsessive compulsive disorder]...After reading a post on the Red Hat Site about hoarding/being a packrat, it brought back memories of our move here from NYC 14 years ago.
As we prepared to move we had boxes stacked from floor to ceiling in our large living room, with no room except to walk around them. Boxes carefully packed with breakables and linens. Accumulations of 31 years. It is incredible how much and what was saved. We had to make some very difficult decisions of what to take and what to discard. If only we knew then what we know now... that it's cheaper to buy new than to ship heavy furniture.
I find I'm back to where I was in NYC... with boxes and boxes of 'stuff' that must be disposed of.
At this time in our life we often see our peers transition.. leaving loved ones with the burden of disposing of their worldly possessions. I don't want my family to have to go through my junk or the guilt of disposing without looking to see what's there. So I've promised myself that starting next month I will be ruthless and de-clutter. Tossing anything not used in the past year including those old old papers I've been holding onto... Such as a newspaper clipping of my return home to Miami after my marriage; Program from my high school graduation; compliments from students I taught to use the computer and from satisfied passengers when I worked for TWA; Receipts for furniture [that we still have] purchased from Bloomingdale's back in the 1960s, etc.; clothing that I had plans to alter or restyle or whatever; things we felt that someone else may want that we replaced and no longer use... aka Clutter - Stuff - Crapola.
A while back when I acknowledged that I am a hoarder, I attempted to organize my clutter. Looking back I realize that really did not help, if anything it made matters worse. My goal is to get RID of the clutter rather than organize it. Wish me luck.
Friday, May 16, 2008
May Flowers
The calendar says it's May... but it feels like it is July or August here in beautiful south Florida. Even though the temperatures are in the high 80s to the 90s, we are blessed.... We do not have tornados and flooding that's happening in so many other parts of our country. The fires in mid and south Florida keeps me inside because of my respiratory problems. But I'm not complaining.. Some have lost their homes to the tornadoes and fires.
Every day I think of that which I close my emails: "Be kinder than necessary... for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle". Some have financial problems and are about to lose their homes...
some don't have money to feed their families... or pay the rent... or buy health insurance...
some are unemployed and unable to find a job....
It all makes me wonder.. 'What is going to become of our country..
What will it be like 5 years from now?? 10 years from now ??".
The next president has a job like no other new president ever faced coming into office.
If you are are a worrier... it is scary.
Not me... I can't do anything about what is or will be...
So I just pray that I and my family and friends will be able to deal with what ever...
The Prayer of Serenity is my mantra:
God grant me the Serenity
To accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
And Wisdom to know the difference.
Every day I think of that which I close my emails: "Be kinder than necessary... for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle". Some have financial problems and are about to lose their homes...
some don't have money to feed their families... or pay the rent... or buy health insurance...
some are unemployed and unable to find a job....
It all makes me wonder.. 'What is going to become of our country..
What will it be like 5 years from now?? 10 years from now ??".
The next president has a job like no other new president ever faced coming into office.
If you are are a worrier... it is scary.
Not me... I can't do anything about what is or will be...
So I just pray that I and my family and friends will be able to deal with what ever...
The Prayer of Serenity is my mantra:
God grant me the Serenity
To accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
And Wisdom to know the difference.
Sunday, May 11, 2008
Mothers Day
During our Mothers Day dinner the discussion went to the Internet. Noelle mentioned that I haven't posted anything in my blog for quite a while. I explained that nothing worth writing about has been happening in my world... nothing but doctor visits and new ailments... She laughed and said I could write about that. I totally disagree... I can't imgine anyone wanting to read about someone else's health complaints and boring everyday events. I know I wouldn't. Again they laughed and suggested I write more about stuff I've told them about my childhood... Like the time that my BF and I were caught jumping on the tops of the students desks in an empty classroom.. and we had to stay after school in the detention hall, on the day that there was a 'BIG' football game with a Jacksonville team after school.
Last month was the Red Hat Society's 10th birthday. My chapter attended a celebration with several other Nubian chapters . It was awesome!! If I find out how to include pictures here, I will let you see, but mean while if you wish to check it out... I have another blog/personal webpage on the Red Hat site: www.QMB2.com/Bunni
I don't have a problem blogging there because my readers [Red Hat Sisters] share the same interest... Red Hatting.
I've begun preparing for my trip to Orlando in June for The Red Hat Society's Annual International Convention and 10th Anniversay Celebration. It's at the Gaylord Hotel, which I have heard so many wonderful things about. From what I'm told, I expect next month I'll have lots to write about when I return..
Hope you had a Happy Mothers Day too.
Last month was the Red Hat Society's 10th birthday. My chapter attended a celebration with several other Nubian chapters . It was awesome!! If I find out how to include pictures here, I will let you see, but mean while if you wish to check it out... I have another blog/personal webpage on the Red Hat site: www.QMB2.com/Bunni
I don't have a problem blogging there because my readers [Red Hat Sisters] share the same interest... Red Hatting.
I've begun preparing for my trip to Orlando in June for The Red Hat Society's Annual International Convention and 10th Anniversay Celebration. It's at the Gaylord Hotel, which I have heard so many wonderful things about. From what I'm told, I expect next month I'll have lots to write about when I return..
Hope you had a Happy Mothers Day too.
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
I'm Back on the Trail Again
Hi There!!
It's been quite a while since I posted... almost a month... Could that mean that I have life now? You know how people say 'Get a life!' Well, I am glad to be back. But I'm sorry that I wasn't here if you stopped by before..
I had my 3rd and final epidural and I feel like dancing. I can't remember when I last felt this good.. No more back pain! Yeaaaaaa!!!
I haven't heard anything yet about my grievance vs. the doctor we fired.
Our new doctor and her associates have a birthday party in the office the last Friday of every month for all patients celebrating a birthday in that month. Last week when I asked the lady that was sitting next to me what was her birthday date... I couldn't believe it when she said March 25.. we share the same birthday. The oldest guest was a 90 year old man. A couple announced that they're in their late 80's but no one else volunteered their ages. LOL. When people are reluctant to tell their age, I always wonder if it's because they are ashamed of how they look for their age...
Each of us were given a nice tote bag with some useful sample goodies. Us ladies were given a porcelain cup and saucer that was wrapped in cellophane and tied with ribbon.
We played a few games of Bingo and the winners received gifts.
We sang Happy Birthday before we enjoyed fruit juices and a delicious birthday cake.
My Red Hat Chapter had a blast at our PJ Brunch last Saturday. We had lunch, played games, exchanged gifts (celebrated 2 birthdays) and discussed our travel arrangements to Orlando in June for the Red Hat Society's 10th Birthday and International Convention. That's another event we can't wait to experience.
This month will be another 'First' for some of our Chapterettes, when we attend the Annual Red Hat Society Day celebration. There they will get to meet red hatters from other local chapters. We get all dressed up in our pretty outfits, boas and big hats/tiaras/crowns, gloves, bling and more bling. When we dress like this it's called Full Regalia (other associations
might call it formal attire). I'll try to post pictures for you later.
It's been quite a while since I posted... almost a month... Could that mean that I have life now? You know how people say 'Get a life!' Well, I am glad to be back. But I'm sorry that I wasn't here if you stopped by before..
I had my 3rd and final epidural and I feel like dancing. I can't remember when I last felt this good.. No more back pain! Yeaaaaaa!!!
I haven't heard anything yet about my grievance vs. the doctor we fired.
Our new doctor and her associates have a birthday party in the office the last Friday of every month for all patients celebrating a birthday in that month. Last week when I asked the lady that was sitting next to me what was her birthday date... I couldn't believe it when she said March 25.. we share the same birthday. The oldest guest was a 90 year old man. A couple announced that they're in their late 80's but no one else volunteered their ages. LOL. When people are reluctant to tell their age, I always wonder if it's because they are ashamed of how they look for their age...
Each of us were given a nice tote bag with some useful sample goodies. Us ladies were given a porcelain cup and saucer that was wrapped in cellophane and tied with ribbon.
We played a few games of Bingo and the winners received gifts.
We sang Happy Birthday before we enjoyed fruit juices and a delicious birthday cake.
My Red Hat Chapter had a blast at our PJ Brunch last Saturday. We had lunch, played games, exchanged gifts (celebrated 2 birthdays) and discussed our travel arrangements to Orlando in June for the Red Hat Society's 10th Birthday and International Convention. That's another event we can't wait to experience.
This month will be another 'First' for some of our Chapterettes, when we attend the Annual Red Hat Society Day celebration. There they will get to meet red hatters from other local chapters. We get all dressed up in our pretty outfits, boas and big hats/tiaras/crowns, gloves, bling and more bling. When we dress like this it's called Full Regalia (other associations
might call it formal attire). I'll try to post pictures for you later.
Thursday, March 6, 2008
As Time Goes By
Seems like it was just Christmas the other day. Can you believe Daylight Saving Time begins Sunday? The days and weeks are here and gone before you realize it. I'm wondering if it's a sign of aging... or because finally, I'm getting back to what was once considered normal.
In spite of having had that infamous respiratory virus and still coughing weeks later, I feel better than I have in months. I've had 2 of the 3 epidural injections for my back pain and though I'm not completely pain free, I feel they're working for me. Also not having to deal with the doctor I fired certainly has helped. I'm sure he was blindsided at being fired, but he has yet another surprise, an even bigger one that definitely won't make him a happy camper when he finds out... I filed a grievance against him. Yes, I sure did... due to among other things, his insistence that depression was causing my back pain... ignoring reports that said otherwise. Shame on him.
The new members of my Red Hat Society Chapter are the type of ladies that I have been seeking from day one. Their enthusiasm is so refreshing. They are just as happy to be members as I am to have them in my chapter. It was amazing how well we all bonded the very first time we all got together in January. Anyone observing us would not believe that 5 of the 10 of us were meeting for the first time. I'm looking forward to many happy times with these wonderful ladies. At the end of this month we are having a 'Pajama Brunch' at the home of one of our Chapterettes, everyone will be wearing PJ's. Everyone will bring a dish and we have a yummy menu. We're all excited like little kids and can hardly wait for the fun to begin.
In spite of having had that infamous respiratory virus and still coughing weeks later, I feel better than I have in months. I've had 2 of the 3 epidural injections for my back pain and though I'm not completely pain free, I feel they're working for me. Also not having to deal with the doctor I fired certainly has helped. I'm sure he was blindsided at being fired, but he has yet another surprise, an even bigger one that definitely won't make him a happy camper when he finds out... I filed a grievance against him. Yes, I sure did... due to among other things, his insistence that depression was causing my back pain... ignoring reports that said otherwise. Shame on him.
The new members of my Red Hat Society Chapter are the type of ladies that I have been seeking from day one. Their enthusiasm is so refreshing. They are just as happy to be members as I am to have them in my chapter. It was amazing how well we all bonded the very first time we all got together in January. Anyone observing us would not believe that 5 of the 10 of us were meeting for the first time. I'm looking forward to many happy times with these wonderful ladies. At the end of this month we are having a 'Pajama Brunch' at the home of one of our Chapterettes, everyone will be wearing PJ's. Everyone will bring a dish and we have a yummy menu. We're all excited like little kids and can hardly wait for the fun to begin.
Friday, February 15, 2008
It Finally Happened
After many detours, ups, downs and bumps in the road and finally firing my Primary Care Physician... a Pain Management Specialist is taking care of my back problem. I had my first epidural injection yesterday. It was the first time in several years that I had absolutely no back pain for more than 5 hours. It was wonderful... Have to wait a few days to see if it works for me.
To be continued.
To be continued.
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
Happy Valentine's Day
I'm finally back. It's not because I didn't want to be here or because I had nothing to say, in fact, it's just the opposite. I finally fired my doctor and now that I've done it, I wonder why I didn't do it sooner. We didn't choose him, he inherited us when he purchased our previous doctor's practice. I guess we just stayed on even after he began to change and put his budget before our medical needs. Can you imagine being told that depression is contributing to your back pain? And suggesting physical therapy rather than requesting an MRI as suggested by another specialist in his network? That was my wake up call. After we switched, I felt like a weight had been lifted from my shoulders.
We are pleased with our new doctor. I go for my first epidural injection for my back problem tomorrow morning. I'm so looking forward to getting my life back... Being able to do little every day things that we all take for granted... bending without fear of generating pain, doing simple things like walking around in the supermarket, water walking in the pool or shopping in the mall with out being in agonizing pain after a half hour or less.
Will let you know later how I make out.
We are pleased with our new doctor. I go for my first epidural injection for my back problem tomorrow morning. I'm so looking forward to getting my life back... Being able to do little every day things that we all take for granted... bending without fear of generating pain, doing simple things like walking around in the supermarket, water walking in the pool or shopping in the mall with out being in agonizing pain after a half hour or less.
Will let you know later how I make out.
Thursday, January 17, 2008
An Unforgetable New Years Eve
After reading an article about New Years Eve happenings, my thoughts went back to when Sanford first asked me for a date. It was 61 years ago.
Bill, one of the guys in the neighborhood had invited me to go with him to a local club on New Years Eve and not having a steady boy friend, I accepted. And guess who else was at that club? The man of my dreams!!
I would see Sanford when he visited friends who lived in the same building I lived. We always said hello. And whenever I saw him, I would rush to telephone my best friend Connie and tell her "I just saw him!!!! I just saw him!!!!" It had been love at first sight, even before I knew his name. Apparently it was love at first sight for him also.
When San saw me at the club that night, he came over to our table and said "If you're old enough to go to clubs, you're old enough to go out with me. When are you going out with me?" While Bill just sat there looking and listening... I said "When?" San replied, "Next week" and that was the beginning of our journey.
Let me explain why Sanford said 'you're old enough to go out with me '. At that time I was working for the New York Telephone Company. We were required to work split shifts and I worked something like 9 am to 1 pm and 5 pm to 8 pm. I always carried a book to read while riding the subway to and from work. Because I looked so young and was always carrying the books, San assumed that I was still in high school... which would have made me too young to date him, a 24 year old WW2 veteran :-).
Sidney Poitier lived in the building next door to mine on Edgecomb Avenue... but he never noticed me. He appeared to be shy. He always walked close to the curb with his head down. That was before he became famous.
Bill, one of the guys in the neighborhood had invited me to go with him to a local club on New Years Eve and not having a steady boy friend, I accepted. And guess who else was at that club? The man of my dreams!!
I would see Sanford when he visited friends who lived in the same building I lived. We always said hello. And whenever I saw him, I would rush to telephone my best friend Connie and tell her "I just saw him!!!! I just saw him!!!!" It had been love at first sight, even before I knew his name. Apparently it was love at first sight for him also.
When San saw me at the club that night, he came over to our table and said "If you're old enough to go to clubs, you're old enough to go out with me. When are you going out with me?" While Bill just sat there looking and listening... I said "When?" San replied, "Next week" and that was the beginning of our journey.
Let me explain why Sanford said 'you're old enough to go out with me '. At that time I was working for the New York Telephone Company. We were required to work split shifts and I worked something like 9 am to 1 pm and 5 pm to 8 pm. I always carried a book to read while riding the subway to and from work. Because I looked so young and was always carrying the books, San assumed that I was still in high school... which would have made me too young to date him, a 24 year old WW2 veteran :-).
Sidney Poitier lived in the building next door to mine on Edgecomb Avenue... but he never noticed me. He appeared to be shy. He always walked close to the curb with his head down. That was before he became famous.
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